Ensuring Well-Being in Leadership: What About You?

Anisha Grossett • July 31, 2024
Early childhood education stands as one of society's most crucial fields. Guiding our youngest learners through their formative years is a weighty responsibility, one that early childhood educators approach with utmost care. At the forefront of this effort, often leading organizations, are Early Childhood Supervisors or Managers. In this pivotal role, decisions are made, environments are shaped, and staff are empowered to deliver the finest early learning experiences possible. While leadership in early childhood education offers numerous rewards, it also brings forth significant responsibilities.

Leadership within early childhood education is both essential and fulfilling. Your dedication to staying abreast of current trends, managing operations, and fostering support and inspiration among your team is invaluable. The field relies on leaders like you to advocate for the vital work of early childhood educators, cultivate nurturing environments for children, and provide ongoing professional development for staff. However, amidst these responsibilities, there lurks the risk of burnout and stress. Juggling heavy workloads and making independent decisions can leave early childhood leaders feeling isolated, like solitary figures navigating their own islands of responsibility and control. Sound familiar?

Consider this analogy: when you board an airplane, the crew instructs you to don your oxygen mask first in case of an emergency, ensuring your well-being before assisting others. The same principle applies to leadership. If leaders neglect their own well-being, their ability to support others diminishes. So, I pose the question, "What about you?" What measures are you taking to prioritize your own well-being? Who is looking out for you?

By integrating a few essential practices into your routine—such as fostering collaboration, setting boundaries, and nurturing self-compassion and self-care—you can thrive as a successful leader without sacrificing your own well-being. Here are some tips to assist you on your journey as a leader in early childhood education:

Foster Collaboration:
  • Identify individuals within the organization who may be interested in contributing to various initiatives and special events.
  • Seek diverse opinions and perspectives when tackling challenges.
  • Encourage ongoing feedback from staff, fostering a culture of open dialogue and problem-solving within the organization.
Set Boundaries to Establish Precedence:
  • Define clear work hours and endeavor to adhere to them.
  • Communicate your response times during weekends and vacations clearly.
  • Determine the value of your time and energy and resist overcommitting.
  • Respect your team's boundaries, leading by example.
Cultivate Self-Compassion and Self-Care:
  • Extend kindness to yourself during stressful moments or difficult days. Take breaks to recharge and regain focus.
  • Incorporate movement into your workday, whether through stretching or short walks, to rejuvenate your body and mind.
  • Immerse yourself in nature, even if only for a few minutes, as studies show it can elevate mood.
  • Cultivate a support system, even if it consists of just one person you can confide in.
  • Spend time with the children whenever possible; their joy is sure to uplift you.
  • Maintain a journal to track your emotional and physical well-being. Reflect on your entries periodically to discern any patterns or changes over time.
By prioritizing collaboration, setting boundaries, and nurturing self-compassion and self-care, you can excel in the field of early childhood education while safeguarding your well-being. Remember, you must secure your own oxygen mask before you can effectively support others.

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By Anisha Grossett August 19, 2026
As summer winds down and a new program year approaches, many early childhood educators find themselves making lists, reorganizing materials, labeling bins, and preparing for a new group of students. Don’t get me wrong, all these things are important. They create an environment where children can thrive. But before your students come through the door, it’s worth checking in with yourself. How are you preparing yourself? Remember, it’s a new program year for you too. Yes, preparing the classroom space and materials are important, but you’re just as important to your students’ learning. The relationships we build, the way we respond, and the curiosity we bring shape children’s experience every day. So, let’s invest time in preparing our mindset, intentions and well-being. Reflect Before You Reset: Every new year offers a fresh opportunity to reflect on the previous one. Ask yourself: What brought me the most joy last year? What challenges did I face? What would I like to do differently? Which routines supported children well, and which could be improved? How did I grow as an educator? Reflection isn’t about dwelling on mistakes. It’s about recognizing what you’ve learning and carrying those lessons forward. Small adjustments can still have a big impact. Reconnect with Your “Why” When schedules become busy and paperwork piles up, it’s easy to slip into simply getting through each day. Before the pace picks up, take a moment to reconnect with the reason you chose this profession. This is a grounding exercise and there’s a reason we talk about it often. Perhaps it’s witnessing a child’s excitement when they solve a problem, or it’s supporting families through important milestones, or creating a place where every child feels they belong. Keeping your purpose at the forefront can help guide decisions through the year and provide perspective during more challenging moments. Prepare for Relationships, Not Just Routines The children in your care won’t remember perfectly organized shelves, but they will remember how they felt in your care. The first few weeks are about much more than learning routines. They’re about building trust. So, let’s be intentional. After all, relationships are the foundation of any learning environment. Think about how you will: Welcome families into your program Help children feel safe and connected Create opportunities for every child to experience success Leave Space for Flexibility It’s natural to want to be organized and prepared before the first day. But don’t forget that some of the most meaningful learning experiences happen when we follow children’s curiosity rather than our own agenda. A well-prepared educator is also a flexible educator. Leave room in your plans for unexpected discoveries, spontaneous conversations, and the interests children bring with them. These moments often become the most memorable because you’ve followed the children’s lead. Check In with Yourself The beginning of a new year or having a new group of students often comes with excitement – but it can also bring pressure. As you care for the children, remember to care for yourself. Are you setting realistic expectations? Do you need to have more recovery time the first few weeks of a new routine? What boundaries will help you maintain balance? Reflection on what helps support your personal well-being. Make a list of people you can turn to when you need support, either in the classroom or out of it. Embrace a Learning Mindset Children aren’t the only learners in the classroom. Every new group of students, every family, and every experience is an opportunity for growth professionally. Rather than striving for perfection or the appearance of perfection, make curiosity the priority. A Fresh Start for Everyone The carefully prepared learning environment is important but so is your warmth, your responsiveness, your patience and your willingness to learn alongside the children in your care. This is what truly creates a place where children can thrive. So, before you organize one more bin in the art cabinet or make another label, take a moment to prepare the most important part of your classroom – you. The year ahead won’t be perfect, and it doesn’t need to be. It simply needs an educator who is reflective, present and ready to build meaningful relationships one day, one child, one family at a time. Here’s to a year filled with curiosity, connection, growth and joy – for both the children in your care and for you. We’ll be rooting for you!
By Anisha Grossett July 29, 2026
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